Sunday, August 20, 2023

Finished Listening to Harry's Book "Spare" My Takeways

 


Book Report on Spare   

By Nancy Lake

Spare was very interesting.  I listened to the whole book on Audible.  There were hills and valleys of interest in the telling of Harrys life.  I especially liked the whole “tell all” Gossipy type sections. It reminded me of Bonfire of the Vanities.  That is a current day drama.  There is such history and tradition in Harry’s life but after his mother dies, he was alone and insecure. He refused to belief his mother was dead, she was just hiding.  Harry felt her presence and experienced animals that seemed to act as an avatar for Diana.  I agree with Harry.  There is no such thing as death.  We drop our body and continue in an energy form. 

The relationship with his dad was not as soul felt. There was lots of rivalry between him and his brother.  It was such a lovely portrayal of the Queen “Granny”. There was a deep and loving relationship between the Queen and Harry. He might have been her favorite and as such got away with certain requests.   Harry was honest and had a no filter approach with his Granny.  She liked that.

 Harry gained such benefit from his mentors in the military.  He was liking military life but when the Taliban learned of his presence in Afghanistan, he became their target.  He was constantly being moved for his sake and everyone elses.

 He is thorough with his horror stories of the Paparazzi.  They are allowed to be very aggressive in the UK.  They look for spicy stories and if there are none, they will invent them. It seems that Meghan ruffles feathers but not by her design.  She was trying to fit in. It seems that Kate was not as adventurous or fun loving in comparison. Those two royals are so different in personalities.  One gets the sense that Meghan was an expert at reading Harry.  He was open with her and adored her.  Those two are not ever going to part. “The Rockies may crumble, Gibraltar will tumble, they’re only made of clay but, Harry and Meghan’s love is here to stay.”  Amen.  Good read (or listen).

 

 

Sunday, July 16, 2023

New Age Nancy's Spinal Stenosis Journey. More Questions Than Answers


At least it might help others to understand. It might help me too.


Oh I taught hatha yoga and grew up with ballet and I was a silver medal figure skater. It was like poetry in motion when gliding on the ice.  The jumps killed my back. 

In the 70 years I have been alive I am not even close to knowing what causes spinal stenosis. Knowing might help us prevent it. I can tell you it is serious and very painful. At this moment I am having trouble walking and standing.  I know that it seems to sneak up on someone.  In fact, in 1992, I was surprised to find out I had spinal degeneration. I had a bad car accident.  A young lady, about 18, ploughed into my car while I was at a yield sign.  She totaled my car.  I was taken to the hospital since I was bleeding.  They x rayed my back.  I was almost 40 that year. I was in college for the second time.  The x rays indicated that I was in big trouble with my back, but I was clueless about why.  I believe I ate well.  I had been a hatha yoga teacher and a dancer.  Nothing seemed to explain this sort of problem.  

During my 2nd pregnancy a glucose test revealed I had gestational diabetes.  That son was born in 1980. I did find a correlation between diet soda and bone health.  Certain sweeteners have a caustic effect on bone tissue.  I will look up that research. I drank quite a bit of caffeinated diet soda to maintain some energy as a young mother. My diet was not good as a teenager.  I would starve to stay thin.  I don’t remember having a label back in the days of Twiggy.  It was the style.  I did that and straightened my curly mop of hair.  When I looked at photos, I was thin but not healthy looking.  I was lacking muscle mass and definition.  I also endured childhood trauma.  I have made peace with it.  There was generational trauma going on.  I am ready to put it aside and live my future.  

I have stenosis in my cervical area of the spine and my lower lumbar area of my spine as well as the characteristic bulging disk at L4 and L5.  I found some things that really helped until recently. I take Osteo FX which is a powder (mixed with juice or water) with the following minerals:   Vitamin D, Calcium, Phosphorus, Magnesium, Zinc, Copper, Methylsulfonylmethane (MSM), trace mineral complex from red algae, glucosamine HCI, Boron, Strontium, chicory root inulin, fructose, natural flavors, guar gum, xanthan gum, rebaudioside A, silica, sunflower oil powder, beta carotene (color), orange peel.  of all these minerals,  Boron is very significant.  All these minerals act together in concert.  Dr. Berg says that Boron allows the calcium and vitamin D to be absorbed.  Chelated minerals are more easily absorbed as well as plant derived minerals.  If someone just crushes up a mineral,  swallows it,  it will only partially be absorbed.  

   Doing Yoga stretches seemed to help a great deal.  At this time, I have turned my focus to gut health feeling that I might not be processing and digesting as well.  But it seems that research is missing some elements to explain why some of us get attacked with this problem (in childhood even).  And get attacked early.  As a young kid I had a milk allergy.  I am wondering if we had good substitutes for calcium back in those days.  My mom did not breast feed us.  I wonder about the craze of the time.  Babies were put on formula, and it was “superior” to breast milk.  I am sure the formula had sugar in it.  No, we now know that nothing beats mother nature.  Breast is best.  I was always taking antibiotics as a kid who frequently got asthma and pneumonia.  My brothers did not seem to have so many doctors’ visits.  We were lucky enough to have orange trees in our back yard.  My Dad insisted on us eating meat.  I was a natural vegetarian and did not like meat.  It tasted dry and leathery, and it would grow in my mouth the more I chewed it.  Somehow that hurt my mothers’ feelings.  I was very hungry by dinner time because I did not get snacks.  Mom felt the hungrier I was the better.  My parents both bullied me about eating meat, but that did not help. I just got so skinny. I was frail and the pediatrician suggested I live with my grandparents. I loved that pediatrician.  I loved my grandparents.  Compared to many families we were lucky.  But my parents fought and triangulated. Dinner time came with plates of food flying into the wall, breaking over my head.  Not to harm me, just one of the many phenomena that happened at dinner time.  I tried to do silly stuff to break the tension.  If only meat was not on the menu.  That would make me happy.

In conclusion, I am looking for more research and support groups.  I am looking for good doctors.  I am glad that there are over the counter edibles.  They do take the edge off pain.  I will continue to add suggestions and try them.  The worse thing is I am having trouble walking.  It is so sad for me.  I like to walk. 

Just sharing with all who might have this problem.  Please write me at nancysnimbus@gmail.com.  I’ll be waiting. 

So I do not have a full website. It is going to be but I have a landing page with AWeber.

angelbellsguidance.aweb.page

and  please visit heynancylake.com

 

 

 

 

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