This
Side of Kenya
Obama with his Luo Grandmother in Kenya
This
Side of Kenya
About a
year ago I accepted a friendship request on Face Book from a man named Gordon
Onyango from Kenya. Kenya is of course
where Obama’s father is from and Gordon has said this that Obama’s extended
family lives close by in a neighboring town.
Gordon’s tribe is the Luo tribe and this is also the tribe of Obama’s
family. The Luo speak Dholuo and they not
part of the dominant Massai tribe in that region. If Obama was campaigning in
Kenya for presidency, he would not win there.
Political beliefs have more to do with tribal affiliation than
ideals. Gordon feels the Luo are
marginalized by the Massai and other tribes.
There are cultural differences between tribes. The Luo are largly a Christian Group and have
taken on more of the English customs.
When we think of the English speaking countries, probably Kenya does not
come to mind. My blog is read mostly by
those in the USA, Canada, the UK and Ireland and Australia. I have a fare amount of readers in Croatia
and Russia as well as France. English is
Gordon’s second language and he is fluent in it. However he loves to read and speak Dholuo
too. For this reason I will translate
what I just wrote. However it is in
Swahili.
Kuhusu
mwaka mmoja uliopita mimi alipokea ombi la urafiki juu ya uso Kitabu kutoka mtu
mmoja aitwaye Gordon Onyango kutoka Kenya. Kenya ni ya kweli ambapo baba wa
Obama ni kutoka na Gordon amesema hii kwamba Obama familia anaishi karibu na
katika mji wa jirani. Kabila Gordon ni kabila la Wajaluo na hii pia ni kabila
ya familia ya Obama. Luo kusema Dholuo na wao si sehemu ya kabila kubwa Massai
katika kanda hiyo. Kama Obama alikuwa kampeni katika Kenya kwa ajili ya urais,
yeye bila kushinda huko. Imani ya kisiasa na zaidi ya kufanya na uhusiano wa
kikabila kuliko maadili. Gordon anahisi Luo ni pembezoni na Massai na makabila
mengine. Kuna tofauti ya utamaduni kati ya makabila. Luo ni largly Group
Kikristo na yamechukua. (This is full of
red lines, it looks like I can’t spell)
When I realized how much
outreach and charity Gordon was doing for his small village, I took a second
look at this friendship. He was asking
for help, monetary help. Sometimes that
throws people off on a Face Book friendship.
Gordon remained friendly and sent some pictures of children who are orphans
due to having parents with the HIV infection.
Aids is rampant in poor areas of Kenya.
Gordon’s group holds to Christian values or (other religions included)
values that maintain fidelity in marriage.
There is some stigma in having aides or being an orphan due to
aides. If children do not wear shoes and
the area they live in is unsanitary they get jiggers. That is a very small flea that burrows into
the soul of the foot and creates many bumps and sores. People die from this infestation. This is not to be confused with the mite that
many in the USA call Chiggers. Clean
water and building wells is one of the first steps to eliminating many diseases
such as: typhoid fever, amoebic dysentery, common dysentery, and diarrhea. Another killer for small children is malaria.
A parasite that is transferred from human to human via mosquitoes is the
cause. Mosquito nets at night are a
great help. Malnutrition and poverty
make childhood very dangerous. Many children enter the labor market and
marriage early for this reason. The WHO or World Health Organization has a
Massai representative and that does not help the Luo very much. If foreign aid is being sent, the Massai
probably get the lion’s share. That is
why I believe that someone trusted in the Luo community is a better judge of
how to distribute supplies and medication. What he asks for is meager but he
knows what is needed. His church will
purchase medical supplies, rubber thongs, mosquito netting and seeds to grow
corn which is ground into porridge.
Women do much of the gardening and have fresh salad material to eat in
the good growing seasons. They know what
is needed much more than those who offer help overseas.
Gordon has become a teacher (ja pwonj ) for me regarding another
world and culture. Sometimes I would
ignore him feeling I was too busy or did not have much in common with this
person. It does take some effort to
cross cultural lines. He remained
positive and happy. He would send me
pictures of his Grandmother and his children.
I am sorry to say it took a while to build a positive relationship. When Gordon’s grandmother passed away, I
could see how hard that was for him. She
left him 4 acres and he is trying to build a medical clinic and dormitory for
orphans. I this point I did wire him a
small amount of money. That was too
little to build a well and lay the foundation for what they hope to do. Any way I started a “Go Fund Me” fundraiser. I am trying to help built between those here
in the USA and Kenya. I would love to raise
a bit more cash for Gordon’s small church.
Have you ever said, “I wish I could send my left over food to hungry or
sick children?” Actually you can through
me. Or if it is a significant donation
you can contact Gordon who will explain how he receives Western Union money
where he lives. I am finding it hard to
motivate people. The economy has
everyone being closed fisted, even for really good causes. The best way to receive personal and
community prosperity is to start having faith and start using resources wisely.
I have been looking at my own budget to see where I could save and negotiate
some of my own bills. If all of my
contacts on email and FACE BOOK could donate 5 dollars that would be $1,500.00
and that would be a small fortune for Gordon. Tithing is an important part of
spirituality. I try and break my tithe into 2 or 3 causes. Gordon has become
one of them. Neale Donald Walsch once said that, you must become the very
essence of prosperity in your vibration.
Instead of saying, “oh I don’t have enough money to donate, it is much
better to say, I believe in the abundance of the universe and I will find the
resources to help. Money is like
breathing in and out. There must be a
flow and circulation to the process.
Eventually I think our money system will change and become more
transparent. When I give I really do
see money flowing back to me. It is
law. So once again, even if it is only 5
$ dollars, throw that out there and see what happens. Free translation makes the world a smaller
place. What worries me is many of those
free translators are disappearing lately Swahili is all I could find today. I am going to try and learn the Luo language;
Seems like it would prove my sincerity.
Thanks Nancy Lake!
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome. I am hoping for very good changes for the children.
ReplyDeleteNancy
Thanks so much Nancy Lake for your heart and Love for Kenya Kids
ReplyDeleteMay God bless you in Abundance!
Mrs. Gordon Onyango
I hope that what I am doing will at least reach some people. I think education is the first piece. Like me, many people do not understand the situations over seas. They believe that by donating to an organization here in the USA, it is helping. It might help the administration of a non profit organization, it might help advertising campaigns, but the end result is: It might not be reaching the intended population, and the type of help might not be what is really needed. If we can gain trust in a grass roots movement, there is a chance! I have my fingers crossed and I am praying.
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