SPS Chapter 12: The Flowering of Psychic Children
I Sara consider myself qualified to
speak on this topic. My insight come from being a mom with psychic children and
being a support to families in the Department of Child Safety system. During my social worker days, I ran across some
of the most amazing kids and their families.
I also realized that there is often a huge gap in understanding for
parents, teachers, and the culture at large, when it comes to special kids with
gifts. Let these light bringers teach us. The new kids.
Jason
My son Jason was
amazing. He had amazing perception and
developed his language abilities early on. We had just taken a shower and we were toweling
off. Jason was only 6 months old and he
looked in the mirror at himself, pointed and said, “English” with perfect pronunciation.
It made me wonder if he remembered a past lifetime where he was not “English”. He did not say “white boy”. I believe he might have been Asian and been
in a very advanced culture. I was never
sure.
Jason was the one who could take toys out of
the box and assemble them quickly at age four.
I would be trying to read the instructions and there were wheels, nuts
and bolts, levers, washers and gaskets. It was often very complicated for
me. Jason also became very emotional and
he would have the worst temper tantrums at times. Art helped Jason cope with all the
complicated things he felt. Like his bio
Dad, Jason could run very fast. His dad had won many track competitions in high
school and college. Bio dad might imply
that I was not married. I was married
for four years but divorced when pregnant with Jason. My next husband adopted him, and the name
changed. My life had some unexpected
twists and turns.
Jason got into
elementary school and was very bored. (Bored
to tears) He would complete his math
ahead of time. Then he would draw as he
waited for the class to finish. The
teacher was not in sync with Jason. She
would complain about him and criticize him in front of the students. I tried to speak with her and then the
principal. I mentioned that Jason might
be a gifted kid. I would find out years
later, that unless you ask for additional testing in writing, sending copies to
the principal and district office as a certified letter, it doesn’t matter at
all. My words fell on deaf ears. Unfortunately, Jason started to hate
school. Jason would have “morning sickness”. He would miss school but was fine about
noon. I was too busy as a single parent
to home school Jason, so he went to a Catholic, nun taught, special
school. They called me to pick up Jason. He was having a meltdown. My frustration continued with all these institutions
of learning. I was told by well meaning
administers that I would just have to put my foot down and force him to go to
school. That power struggle was not working
at all. Jason and I went to family
counseling. I wish I could say we as a
family found the answers. I did the best
I could to use Jason’s natural curiosity to help him learn. We did go to the library quite often and
Jason loved his art teacher. Jason
changed schools when we moved, and he met a best friend there. Art was Jason’s biggest outlet and
healer. Jason was always my teacher. The Sunflower painting is his. See top of page.
To sum up this child,
Jason: He was very intuitive and insightful.
Children like him are rule breakers and game changers. They have come into this world with many
advanced skills. If there was a rating
for those with leadership and expert social skills, Jason would be at 100. Jason died at age 27 ( bizarre accident of mixing
Seroquel with Alcohol). His funeral was
attended by hundreds. He made his mark
with his art and his sense of humor.
Jason (painting) at
the Gay Pride festival in San Diego, CA.
2005? His life partner took this photo.
Mom published a book called “Sunflowers for Jason”
Zachary
Zachary was the
quiet one. He did not talk at all for
the first three years. Occasionally he
would point to something and say “that”.
Zachary did not need to communicate with Jason or his mom, “me” this
writer. We just knew what he
needed. Zachary was not allowed to
cry. We would sense his distress and
take care of him. Zach also wore his
pajamas to first grade. Mom hired
someone to get these kids off to school, but maybe that was not working out to
well. Zachary was a totally brilliant
telepathic communicator. For sure, his
brother and family, were also able to pick up messages through thin air, but
Zach was especially strong at transmission.
When Zachary was
about 5, he wanted to go out on a date with his mom. It was too cute. He dressed up in a suit and he asked me to
dress up as well. I don’t even remember
what we did, perhaps dinner and a movie.
Sometime after that, I was very sick with a migraine headache. I did not say anything about it to my boys, but
I was laying on the couch with a cold rag on my forehead. Zachary walked up to me and said, Mom, I am
going to take your headache away. He
placed his hands on my forehead and I could feel tremendous heat. Within about 10 minutes Zach removed his hands
and I sat up feeling pretty good. I
would have to be extra dense to not know Zach had a gift. Some parents might not realize or not praise
it. I told Zach that he had something
pretty spectacular.
Over the years Zach
was able to help me and others when they were in pain. Once Zach became a teenager, he did not
believe in himself anymore. The world
will knock out anything that appears to be different or un-explainable. Kids like Zach need to be encouraged. They need to know we live in an energetic
world. Science is just beginning to
catch up to the dynamics of hands on healing. Just recently Zach once again
started practicing healing. He does not advertise,
and he is selective.
This writer, Zach’s
mom, has been talking to “dead” people for a while. I am a natural medium. Imagine my surprise when Zach started to see
visually and talk to departed souls with clairaudience as well. He has spoken to Robin Williams and Sylvia
Browne too. “How long have you been a
medium?” I asked. Zach says it has
always been that way, but he did not want anyone to know. He does not want to be like me or Long Island
Medium. He does not like that sort of
pressure. When Zach was about 6 years old,
he had an imaginary friend named “Star Boy”.
Star boy would set all the electric trucks and toys in motion. One day the kids were not home, but the
record player, toy ambulance, and some other gadgets, all came on at once. That was what Star Boy did. We went through about a year of very
paranormal excitement until Star Boy went away.
Zach became the
gentle giant. If someone had asked him, “what are you going to be when you grow
up?” I doubt if he would say a Peacekeeper. He was very strong and one time a friend
talked him into cornering and fighting someone.
Zach took down the school bully in front of a small crowd. As a mom, I never worried too much when my
two boys were together. They could look
out for each other. Zachary was also an
empath and later he would feel terrible about hurting another human being. Those who loved Zach convinced him that he
was a natural peacekeeper. His size and
agility stopped people and re-directed any violence before it happened. When Zach was full grown, he stepped in front
of me when I was confronted by a neighbor.
Once again, no one got hurt, but that neighbor had a change of
mind. Zach’s ability to stand his ground
and speak his truth without resorting to violence was a gift in and of itself. Zach nursed a baby sparrow back to health and
before taking it to a bird sanctuary, mom snapped a picture. Zach is strong, handsome, empathic, poetic, a
writer extraordinaire, medium, a miraculous healer, and he is a great cook.
Some lady will be lucky when he decides to settle down. But most of all he is introverted and a
natural peacekeeper. Zach once was crying
(about age 7). He said, “I do not want
to be in another war”. He probably was a
general in the army in many past wars like General Patton. This mom explained that he did not have to
join the military this time. If Zach had
of been born to a military family, he might have been up a creek. The family he chose (this time) understood
who he really was.
Zachary, age 19,
with a little sparrow that fell out of the nest. The parents were circling above this
baby. And a cat was stalking him. We
rescued him. We hand fed him until he could fly. This was not the only bird
that we nursed back to health. Jason and
Zach would bring home critters all the time. Is it just me, or is there a halo
to this picture? It was never
photo-shopped.
The bond between the
two brothers survives death. When Zach
and I drove to San Diego for Jason’s memorial service, This writer got lost on
the elaborate freeway system. Zach
started experiencing taps on the side of his head. If the tap was on the left side, we turned
left, and on the right side, right turn.
At the end of this amazing number of turns we landed in the parking lot
for “Sea World”. We called Jason’s
friend who met us there. He was only
about 10 minutes away. The friend said, “I
had to smile, this is where Jason used to come to see the 9:30 PM fireworks. Just as he said that the fireworks were going
off all around us. It was as if they
were heralding our arrival.
Sometimes I wonder
if I would have given birth to Jason knowing how it would end one day. I could hardly survive the pain and
loss. It is clear now, that the
relationship with Jason continues and we all benefited so much from the
co-creation of this time together. It was
worth it.
Other kids with
gifts
They are all around
us, too many to count. In the social work field, I see kids that are leaders
and they are breaking the cycle of violence and pushing their families to over
come age old karma. They are musicians,
artist, writers, and they are speaking out and changing things in a way never
imagined.
When my boys were
young the neighbor’s little girl liked to hang out with us. Her gift to us was
the magical way she saw the world. She allowed
us to feel the laughter and fairies singing. She was a little ray of sunshine. I
found out she had died. A medium described
her to me and said she called me “auntie”.
When I was working with autistic kids there was a little boy who used to
sing with me. When he was singing, he
was so angelic and happy. The teacher
felt it would be better to keep him on track. I would try but he reverted to a
mushroom under a cloud. We made no
progress. I often wonder if just
connecting with autistic children any way possible is a good place to begin.
Kids are the most
psychic when they are about 5.
Kindergarten is a place where everyone is an artist (Picasso s all)
Everyone can dance and sing. And there
is little pressure or competition. Most
children are in line with who they really are, and they express great wisdom “out
of the mouths of babes” is that saying.
It is a stage that fosters imagination, curiosity, and
understanding. As the brain matures,
children transition from preoperational thinking into concrete operational
thinking at age 8 and then there is continued cognitive development until
adulthood. We continue all our
lives. Teenagers experience so much competition
and peer pressure. No one would dare
stand out as unique or different unless they want to commit social suicide. Teenagers quite naturally gravitate to their
peers and they are less connected to their families of origin. If parents complain that their teen does not
want to be at home. Congratulations, they are exactly at the right place for
their age.
James Van Praagh
wrote a book to help guide Psychic Teenagers. Click
here.
Goldie Hawn has
developed a mindfulness program for children.
Her site is called mind up. She uses a description of the brain to help
kids feel a sense of control over their feelings, emotions and personal well-being. That is so important. Empower kids and do not allow superstition
and fear to dominate.
My kids grew up with paranormal activity around
the house. They were not afraid of those
things going bump in the night. If they
were troubled, we would do a group prayer.
They did believe in a higher power.
They felt in charge of their own development. Sometimes parents don’t have all the answers,
but that is what makes life exciting. We
are all psychic. It is part of our
survival and just like animals we have some instincts that things are not OK. Once when little I had a dream where a bee
was buzzing around my head. I woke up
and heard a noise outside. I went to my
window and saw a man with a black hat trying to steal my bike. I ran out with a flashlight and he was literally
a deer caught in a head light. He ran
off and I brought my bike inside. There
are plenty of practical reasons to meditate and learn to use psychic gifts and
premonitions. No subject should be off
limits. When I was 6, I asked my family
what the work f**k meant? They were
shocked but my father asked me where I had heard that word? I said that my friend and I were at the park
sitting in the trees when some boys said it to us. They asked if we knew what that word meant? My dad decided that my friend would be
welcome to stay at our home where there was adult supervision. My friend’s mom
was working long hours. Single moms are
at a disadvantage sometimes. I would
find out for myself.
There is a book that
is the bible of parenting. Find it used
if you can. How
to talk so kids will listen and how to listen so kids will talk. If you want your kids to share with you at a
deeper level, then create that safe zone when they have your undivided
attention. No TV in the background. Parents should not interrogate…just allow
kids to share on any subject that comes up.
Eventually the subject of dreams and visions and other psychic things
will emerge. They best families have
robust conversations about lots of different things. And it is OK.
And they remain intuitive for life.
The end.
our "bigger than life" Jason
Feel free to write
me and ask questions about your kids.
professional
counselor and psychic in Phoenix, AZ
I just watched (on you tube) Long Island Medium, Theresa, speak to parents about their psychic child. I remember telling kids the same, almost verbatim thing. You can tell the ghost or spirit to "go to the light and stop bothering you". Kids need to know they have that power and parents need that knowledge too. Here is the link to that show.
